Regardless of what you heard, the truth is, flirting is an art. And, just like any art, it can be mastered and improved upon. Of course, it helps to have natural charisma, but we’re not all blessed that way. So yes, there are ways to get better at flirting, techniques you can learn, and moves to master.
If you met a hot girl on Secret Affairs
my list of flirty questions to ask a girl you like is perfect to get you started in the game. Each of the questions on the list represents a cute, innocent way to get to know the girl you like. Even more, it will give you an opportunity to show how smart and funny you are, and it will open new topics for communication.
So, what’s your story?
What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
It’s a conversation booster and lets you know if she loves adventure, flirts with danger, or she just likes curling up with a good book from time to time. Of course, the question can bounce back so be prepared with an answer of your own.
What’s your favorite holiday?
The holidays we love tell a lot about ourselves! For instance, a person who loves Halloween and appreciates the idea of a good costume has a rebellious, artistic side and loves parties. On the other hand, someone who loves Christmas is more family-oriented and enjoys the beauty of a romantic evening by the fireplace.
It’s also a way to gather intel on how she likes to spends the holidays. If the relationship goes any further, you can use the information you get now to create the perfect couple holiday for her.
“What’s your idea of an ideal man?”
After the first date you still want to keep things flirty and playful, but you don’t want to wait too long before taking things on a more serious note (that is, if you like the girl). This question reveals her expectations in a possible partner and lets you know if you actually have a real chance with the girl.
“What’s your best childhood memory?”
A great second date question and a fantastic way to make her think about some of her favorite times of life! It’s also a great way to learn more about her past, her family, and the environment in which she grew up.
Where do you like to be kissed the most?”
It is bold and it leads to a more intimate relationship between the two of you. It also shows you have no interest in a platonic relationship (if there was any doubt up to this point) and allows her to reveal something a bit more sexual.
Still, you must make sure it is the right time. For instance, you shouldn’t ask this question immediately after the first or second date. Maybe wait for a third date to go by and then ask it.